Patience is the wisdom to understand that life has other plans than what you may have. Some crystals reduce your anger, and others work on your temper, aggression, or luck. What Chakra is associated with patience? What are the best crystals for patience and calmness?

A single chakra isn’t associated with patience, and the weakness of different chakras can add to a lack of patience, increase in aggression, and loss of empathy, etc.

The best crystals for patience and calmness are: 

  1. Blue Lace Agate
  2. Amethyst
  3. Dumortierite 
  4. Aquamarine
  5. Emerald
  6. Lepidolite
  7. Black Tourmaline
  8. Mookaite Jasper
  9. Blue Howlite
  10. Angelite
  11. Dioptase 
  12. Smoky Quartz
  13. Rose Quartz
  14. Fluorite 
  15. Red Tiger’s Eye 

I’ll explain why, how, and when to use these crystals to cultivate other virtues like patience and calmness.

Blue Lace Agate Crystals for Calmness 

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Blue Lace Agate is one of the best crystals for calming down your mind, body, and spirit, especially during stress. 

Blue Lace Agate eliminates tension, anxiety, and negative thoughts the second you touch it. So, carry it as a palm stone for extra calmness during crucial projects, decisions, and days.

Amethyst Crystals for Calming and Patience

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As a crystal that’s good for studying, learning, tests, and even psychic protection, Amethyst can calm your mind, body, and spirit. You should wear it on your higher chakras, or carry it in your pocket to feel grounded, calm, wise, and open-minded. 

Dumortierite Crystals for Stress Relief

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Do you feel oversensitive often? It might be because your higher chakras are blocked. 

Dumortierite opens the third eye and throat chakras to eliminate triggers that cause stress. It’s a great crystal for finding your voice and expressing yourself without getting overwhelmed.

Aquamarine Crystals for Tranquility 

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Usually found in spas and yoga retreats, Aquamarine is a relaxation crystal that can calm the worst temper and anger. It’s a great crystal for managers, team leaders, and executives. 

The best way to charge Aquamarine for calmness is through positive affirmations because it’s a throat chakra crystal. 

Emerald Crystals for Compassion

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Life can become too much sometimes, and can really drain your energy. If you’re feeling exhausted in life, get an Emerald ring and wear it on your dominant hand. Emerald taps into the heart chakra to find unconditional love for you and others around you.

Lepidolite Crystals for Calming Mind

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Do you know Lepidolite is excellent for removing EMF radiation from our gadgets? It works because Lepidolite is a powerful stone that clears all types of negativities. That’s why holding a Lepidolite for a few minutes in your palm reduces anxiety, irritability, and stress. 

Black Tourmaline Crystals for Patience

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Work, romance, and responsibilities aren’t always the reason why we lose patience. At times, it may be from toxic people and the boundaries we keep with them. 

Carry a Black Tourmaline crystal to repel toxic people from entering your aura or biofield. Black Tourmaline will ground and center you in the toughest situations, even if it’s not touching your skin.

Mookaite Jasper crystals for Calming Anger

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A decision-making stone, Mookaite Jasper is famous for helping you walk away from volatile situations. It’s the best anger management crystal for teenagers. 

How? Mookaite Jasper fills the wearer with infinite patience from Mother Earth. Place the crystal on the soil with your palm on top of the crystal. Do this for a few minutes to calm the worst wrath.

Blue Howlite for Emotional Balance 

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Do you often feel overexcited or moody? Get a Blue Howlite and chant positive affirmations while looking into the crystal. Chanting will program Blue Howlite to stop you from getting oversensitive, clingy, or overwhelmed in life. 

Here are some positive affirmations to use with Blue Howlite:

  • I am calm.
  • I am wise.
  • I am patient.

Angelite Crystals for Spiritual Calmness 

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Angelite is a high-vibration crystal for calming your spirit during mental breakdowns, premonitions, and fears, etc. It works because Angelite awakens your intuition to help you accept and transition easily through changes. 

I like moonlight cleansing and charging before using Angelite to calm the soul.

Dioptase Crystals for Calmness in Grief 

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Hugs and kisses may not feel warm enough if you’re going through extreme grief or trauma. In such cases, try bonding with a Dioptase crystal.

It’ll help your mind get back to normality. It’s also excellent for those with low self-esteem and high self-pity. 

Dioptase helps us let go of the past and its regrets. 

Smoky Quartz Crystals for Anxiety 

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One of the best crystals for anger management, Smoky Quartz also eliminates stress, fear, heart palpitations, and worry. You can carry it on you to prevent panic attacks. It’s a good grounding crystal for eliminating depression and self-destructive thoughts.

Rose Quartz Crystals for Calmness During Exams

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For students and interviewees alike, Rose Quartz is a great crystal for calming down during exams and interviews. How? It connects your heart Chakra with the universe, to draw on unconditional love and support. 

You can carry Rose Quartz in your pocket after holding it for a few minutes under a steady stream of tap water. 

Fluorite Crystals for Calm Vibes 

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Another powerful crystal to manifest calm and good vibes around you is Purple Fluorite. 

  • First, set a crystal grid in a mandala or sigil shape. 
  • Secondly, activate the grid with your Fluorite wand by circling it thrice.
  • You can carry the wand for quick manifestations to school, college, or office.

Red Tiger’s Eye Crystals for Anger and Frustration

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Do you feel like your mind might explode if you don’t yell at the top of your lungs? Stress gets to people differently, and people with higher responsibilities are mostly overstressed.

Carry a Red Tiger’s Eye crystal to relieve frustrations at work, home, or the gym. Make sure to charge your Red Tiger’s Eye with meditation for five minutes at dusk or dawn. 

Start Using Crystals for Patience and Calmness NOW!

Patience is called a virtue. That’s mostly because it takes scores of bitter experiences to learn its lesson and listen more. 

But if patience is a tough goal until now, seek the help of crystals. They’ll attune your body, mind, and soul to remain calm when facing adversities, challenges, stress, and failures.

Here’s a summary of the best crystals for patience and calmness before you go:

Chart for Best Crystals for Patience and Calmness with  their designation usage

So, which crystal will you pick for calming your temper? 


Hiya, I am Ceida Uilyc, JewelryTalk’s in-house crystal expert, metaphysics junkie, an avid nature enthusiast, and a jewelry maven. I believe crystals are the fruits of Mother Earth and there’s nothing that makes me happier than sharing my experiences, and knowledge about them. When not making spells and potions, I love wandering around my garden or tripping on trendy new necklaces and rings.

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